Cinderella in a party dress

10knotes: AKA HOW CELEBRITIES SHOULD ACT

Thu, 23 May 2013 06:21:39 -0700

10knotes:

AKA HOW CELEBRITIES SHOULD ACT

chibird: Introducing, pocket penguin! Everyone should have a...

Tue, 21 May 2013 21:01:37 -0700

chibird:

Introducing, pocket penguin! Everyone should have a pocket penguin. ^u^

“I just wanna feel this moment.” Crazy fun times...

Mon, 20 May 2013 02:21:23 -0700

“I just wanna feel this moment.” Crazy fun times tonight! ☺🎶 #billboardmusicawards #tracymorgan #asianinvasion #televasian #dance #chrisbrown #lilwayne #iconapop #justinbieber #notabelieber #tswift #davidguetta #vegas #funtimes #workin6hours #worthit Thx @heybails08 !!

😉🌺🎶🍹#summer #vegas #poolparty #crookedsunglasses #margarita...

Sat, 18 May 2013 16:43:04 -0700

😉🌺🎶🍹#summer #vegas #poolparty #crookedsunglasses #margarita #saturday #goodtimes #nocreepersallowed #notreallytan #filter (at TAO Beach)

There's a lot to look forward to in life... Like Arrested Development Season 4 at the end of this month.

Fri, 17 May 2013 22:42:00 -0700

NO TOUCHING!

When my friends and I have to go to work after a night out

Fri, 17 May 2013 16:07:38 -0700

whatshouldwecallme:

This will be me on Monday

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Fri, 17 May 2013 16:06:48 -0700

Why can’t we just live our lives and not give a damn about what anyone had to say about it? Why...

Fri, 17 May 2013 14:21:27 -0700

Why can’t we just live our lives and not give a damn about what anyone had to say about it? Why can’t we create our own societal norms and decide for ourselves what is and isn’t acceptable? What would our materialistic, narcissistic, close-minded, pompously tolerant American culture look like if we stopped looking at everyone else? Would our desires be different? Would our choices deviate? What if we let our innate moral center (as defined by C.S. Lewis) be the deciding factor in our choices? What if we let our own preferences define the activities, education, fashions and jobs we pursue? What if our friends didnt laugh at our choices in film, music, sports teams, hobbies or accessories? What if our relatives didnt doubt our means of income or ways to impact the world? Would we be better off? Would we be happy?

Found this in the mail 🎶🌙 @bethany_tsukiko @jon_doer...

Fri, 17 May 2013 12:59:19 -0700

Found this in the mail 🎶🌙 @bethany_tsukiko @jon_doer #walkthemoon #concert #happy #autumn #annasun #quesadilla #tightrope #cantwait #goodtimesahead

vaginalsalsa: Dayummm

Fri, 17 May 2013 11:22:30 -0700

vaginalsalsa:

Dayummm

thelovewhisperer: Your daily dose of Love Capsules from The...

Thu, 16 May 2013 22:50:39 -0700

thelovewhisperer:

Your daily dose of Love Capsules from The Love Whisperer

there’s laughing at yourself and there’s people laughing AT you. which is fine when...

Thu, 16 May 2013 21:35:28 -0700

there’s laughing at yourself and there’s people laughing AT you. which is fine when you’re having fun and all but condescension—believing you’re better than another person, laughing at something they said in all seriousness, mentally looking down on another—is unattractive and makes you look like a douche.

Doing PR for our wine competition today. Some of the judges...

Thu, 16 May 2013 18:11:16 -0700

Doing PR for our wine competition today. Some of the judges decided to rep my boys 😉💙⚾🍷#officelife #lawinecomp #sofun #letsgododgers #work #thursday #dodgers

When I like a guy's cologne

Wed, 15 May 2013 23:21:25 -0700

whatshouldwecallme:

Post-grad advice.

Wed, 15 May 2013 23:11:00 -0700

“25 Things I want To Know Before College” is a blog I read on Thought Catalog tonight and it got me thinking about my own college experience. That being said, I decided to answer these questions myself :)

1. Will there be actual kitchens where I can cook things? Will I have a working oven I can use to bake cakes, or will my idealistic 1950s-housewife ways be beaten out of me by a lack of working technology?

If your college is like mine, you will have a fully stocked kitchen. Try to bake/cook between the hours of 7 a.m. and 9 p.m. because everyone else will be in there between 10 p.m. and 6 a.m.

2. Who do I ask if I don’t know how things work? Is there a manual provided or do I have to work it out myself?

If you’re a girl, just smile and ask nicely. There’s always a boy around to help you figure out how to fix your car/computer/what have you. Or you can just put on your big girl pants, take a deep breath, and figure it out. You’re in college. You’re “smart.”

3. How do you even do the laundry? What if I don’t understand the washing machine and accidentally flood the laundrette with soap suds?

I learned to do laundry when I was 10-years-old. So I can’t help you here. Or just see #2.

4. Is it worth taking a toolbox in case things break? If so, does this mean I have to ask my dad for DIY lessons?

Yes. Things will break. Bring the tool box.

5. How much am I going to change as a person? What if I look back at myself at 18 in four years’ time and hate everything I stand for now? Can I deal with that?

You aren’t going to recognize 18-year-old you by the time you graduate. & that’s how it should be. I don’t know what the future holds but just try and do the right thing as often as possible. You’ll make mistakes and hurt people. Learn from it.

6. Does the reputation you garner in your first day/week/term last forever? Or, if I turn up for Freshers’ Week with my hair dyed purple, will I forever be known as “That Cool/Emo/Hipster/Weird Girl With Purple Hair”, even if I change it a month later?

The people you meet your freshman year won’t matter by the end of spring semester. Except for your best friends. Who will love you no matter what your reputation is, or will be.

7. If university entails more work than the final year of school, how do people manage to go to classes AND go to societies AND do the extra reading AND have go out three times a week? I want to know the secret.

1. School
2. Social life
3. Sleep

Now pick 2. Welcome to college and the rest of your life. (P.s. skip the extra reading.)

8. Will people offer me drugs? Will I get judged on whether I accept/reject them? What if I smoke weed one time and end up rocking back and forth in the foetal position, my brain consumed by paranoia (which is totally the sort of thing which would happen to goody-two-shoes like me who has never even been near an illegal substance before)? What then?

You will get judged no matter what you choose. And that’s okay. If you want to try weed, try weed. I highly doubt you’ll be consumed by paranoia the first time… but you never know. College is about experimentation. If weed is something you need to experience, then go for it.

As for the other options, I’ve never done hard drugs. & I would advise against it, but that’s just me.

9. Is it bad that I kind of resent the fact people from school are going to the same university as me? I just wanted to get away and have a new start and boom, old acquintances everywhere. Is it rude if I just kind of… ignore them?

Resentment is normal-ish. College is the time to reinvent yourself 20 times over. Don’t be rude (and yes, that includes ignoring them) but don’t feel obligated to be their BFFs either.

10. What do I do if my dorm room has damp?

What is damp?

11. If I join lots of extra-curricular activities, will my grades suffer?

Maybe. And it’s worth it.

12. If I join too many extra-curricular activities, can I quit some without people being weird and resenting me for it?

Unless you’re the leader I doubt they will care for very long.

13. Will I get homesick? Will I miss my mum doing almost everything for me and gain a new-found appreciation of her as an everyday Superwoman? Will I miss my cats coming and meowing at me every time I try and do something productive? Will other people be homesick too?

I woke up feeling homesick every day for 2 weeks. You’ll appreciate your parents/family 100x more than before. And other people will be more homesick than you. And eventually, college will feel more like home than your parents’ house.

14. Am I going to manage to stay in contact with my friends from back home, or will we just slowly and surely drift apart until I’m living inside that fucking Gotye song about somebody that I used to know? Is it worth the effort, or are my endeavours doomed from the get-go?

That’s up to you. I personally kept in touch with all my best friends throughout college. But we were only 40 minutes apart.

15. Is it still legal to watch television on BBC iPlayer and 4oD if I don’t have a TV license? How would you even enforce that? I just don’t want to be arrested for piracy, okay.

There’s at least one hacker per dorm floor. I’m sure you will be fine.

16. Is there a diplomatic way to tell people to be quieter while boning their significant others, or do I just have to suck it up/sound like a dick?

The latter. That’s what headphones are for.

17. Am I going to be able to budget well enough to do things like buy not-tested-on-animals shampoo and retain my long-running vegetarianism, or will I just have to accept that student life involves diminshed ethics and greasy kebabs at 3am?

A mixture of both.

18. I imagine college is nothing like any of the movies or TV shows I’ve seen. Is there an exception to this, or are two seasons of Fresh Meat going to have to suffice?

I don’t know what Fresh Meat is. But college is whatever you want it to be. So if you want to be doing kegstands and partying at all hours, college has that. If you want to be in the library all the time college has that. If you want sit under a tree and strum your guitar while “rocking” (you’re not rocking) TOMS and a v-neck like every other boring male at my school, you can do that.

19. Is there a blanket guide to dealing with professors, or do I have to suss it out on a case-by-case basis?

Case-by-case. Always case-by-case.

20. Will the older students be nice to me?

Unless you’re a freshman, hierarchy isn’t everything. Just don’t be a douche and you’ll be fine.

21. How many times am I allowed to screw up friendships/relationships/essays before people expect me to work out what I’m doing?

Umm… I screwed up every close friendship I had in college. I don’t think you’re “allowed.” It just happens. Apologize, accept the consequences, learn from them, don’t repeat mistakes if you can. As for essays… just pass with a B or an A if you can.

22. Does anyone really know what they’re doing?

There will be those college kids who think they have their shit together but everyone panics at least once before (or during… and definitely after) graduation.

23. What if I don’t make any friends?

You will.

24. What if I make the wrong friends?

You can always make new ones.

25. What if I picked the wrong university?

One word: Transfer.

But give it two semesters. Fall is rough, spring is better and summer gives you time to recover from both.

woke up at 5 a.m. worked 7 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. came home. ate with the family. finished a 1.5 hour...

Wed, 15 May 2013 22:26:00 -0700

woke up at 5 a.m.
worked 7 a.m. - 3:30 p.m.
came home. ate with the family.
finished a 1.5 hour work-out.
exhausted. but satisfied.

tomorrow is work 7-3:30 p.m.
disneyland with the madre :]
work-out.
pass out.
and the weekend is going to be insane.

hello, may <3

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Wed, 15 May 2013 05:05:25 -0700

I hope that includes this summer :)

Tue, 14 May 2013 23:31:15 -0700

I hope that includes this summer :)

This might be a cliche, but I truly believe that in order to...

Tue, 14 May 2013 23:30:30 -0700

This might be a cliche, but I truly believe that in order to grasp and embrace whatever life we are pursuing, we need to do these three:

Breathe. Smile. Love.

What’s a life without those?

When life is rough: Pray.

Tue, 14 May 2013 23:25:31 -0700

When life is rough: Pray.
When life is great: Pray.